Grace celebrated her fifth birthday last week and it was the first party that we’ve done for the girls away from home. I have had so much fun planning the girls’ birthday parties for the last seven years, so it was an adjustment (though not a surprise) when Grace asked that her party be at a local gymnastics center. She’s a no-muss, no-fuss, all-action, all-the-time kind of girl. She can skip the decorations and fluff – and that’s exactly what she told me. “Mommy, I want my birthday party at the gymnastics place, and I don’t want any decorations.” And it went on further….”I don’t want you to spend any time making decorations because I just want you to play with me.” Dagger to the heart.
I need you to understand how hard I work to make sure that my creative time doesn’t impede on quality time with my girls. I mostly craft after the kids are in bed or on the days that the girls spend playing over at Grammy’s house. On occasion, I’ll pull out a project in the daytime if the girls are all occupied upstairs playing together. So, when Grace threw this request at me, it really triggered my mom guilt/panic.
But, we went with it. I planned absolutely nothing for her party except for reserving the gym and inviting a few children. It was such a relief to celebrate the holidays without worrying about the looming birthday party that was upcoming.
I held off from the planning until four days before the party. I went to the craft store to get some fabric for another project and came across the cutest little mason jars. I hadn’t figured out the cupcakes for the party, so I jumped on the chance to make something cutesy and crafty without breaking the “no decorations” rule. Grace did specify “red” as her preferred party color, so that was helpful.
I also picked up some polka dotted oilcloth for the party table and some washi tape to stick on anything I could…..and then I found some great metallic dancewear fabric, knowing that there was no way Grace would turn down a new leotard. In fact, she kind of went crazy for it when I made it.
I made some little labels for the drink bottles with the guests’ names, and added a little clipart for labels to top the cupcake jars and treat bags. I cut out larger labels and added some die cut letters for a banner. And that’s about it.
The party was awesome and EASY!!! I spent very little on new supplies. I packed everything I needed into a single tupperware bin in about 15 minutes. I didn’t have to clean my house or panic about timing. We loaded the bin of supplies and the kids up in the car, went and picked up balloons and some pizza and we were party ready! And the only crafting time I put in was (when Grace wasn’t watching) at night and on my babysitting day. Everyone was happy and the birthday girl had a smashingly good time.
Comments & Reviews
Nice work! Looks like it was still a beautiful looking party, but more importantly, the party your birthday girl wished for. I struggle with this mom guilt too and know it’s just a matter of time before my girls tell me they want me to “cool it!” Yikes! Your parties are always fabulous!
Your bare-minimum amount of planning and decor puts my weeks-of-planning-and-preping to sad, miserable shame! 🙂 And I think sometimes we read too much into wha our kids say. Maybe project our inherit mother-guilt into simple statements. You are a great mom, your kids know it and they’ll have amazing, lasting memories of it.
Alida L. says
You are a genius.
Это удивительно и очень красиво!
You are a WONDERFUl mom Stef! I can tell. And you are such an expert photographer. I love all the details you snuck in there ;). Your pared down party is a normal party for me. You amaze me!
Kristie Clower says
Amazing Stef. Happy birthday Grace! I love the cupcakes in the mason jars. And the leotard turned out great! Do you plan on giving a more in depth post about it because I would love to see more of the details. I’m terrified of sewing that kind of material.
What a fun party! Happy birthday grace! Ps dont feel guilty-you still did way more than i do.
Sixty-Fifth Avenue says
Love it all Steph! The story of Gracie’s request is so funny. You are so lucky to have girls with all different personalities to keep you on your toes;) xo
The Davis Family says
Looked like a very fun day!! Love the simplicity of it, yet still adorable! And so grown up!! That Grace! Remember she was just a little peanut in an infant seat the first time you came over to our house to play 🙂 Time flies! Love you!!
Everything is amazing!!! I wish I had 1/5 of your creativity and talent!!
Janelle Johnston says
So are those just mini cupcakes layered with frosting? Did you have to cut them up at all to make them fit nicely because your layers of icing are pretty darn straight on all of them. I can see mine being pretty bumpy. Looks great and I love the twist on regular mason jars and no plates! Do you keep them after to re-use or let the kids take them home? As my kids get older there are more and more out of home parties and it’s quite the set up and packing logistics nightmare. Everything PLUS the cake. Cupcakes have been done on several occasionals simply because they’re so much easier to transport.
I love how you proved that you can throw a fun, cute party even while keeping things simple. When planning my daughter’s first birthday party (for family only), I wanted it to be cute and simple, but so many ideas online looked like the parties were an all-out soiree. Sometimes all you need are a few pops of color and a little imagination!
kim leavens says
Super cute…great ideas to incorporate into any number of celebrations..!!! Thanx for sharing.